instead of just jumping on your high horse, you will see I wasnt blasting the poster of the comments
No High Horse at all.
It wasn't a pop at you matty it was pointing out simply that you "CAN" be insensitive at times, and your actually the last person
i expected to be posting about peoples feelings and sensitivity.
We really only watch out for "Disrespectful" And Liable comments to be fair.
Your advice is fair comment, and worth mentioning, but with local issues people are going to know extra little bits too

Which can make a storey interesting. Its fair to say that as a moderator of this forum i watch most of the comments and members do know where the line is. And if not members let me know by reporting it.
Post above - I blame firefox for there dictionary making "incentive" instead of incentitive as a spelling option